FREE GUIDE
Walk into your next appointment with the exact questions to ask so you can finally find a provider who truly understands surgical menopause, without feeling dismissed, rushed, or like you have to figure it all out alone.

The 9 must-ask questions that uncover whether your doctor truly understands surgical menopause or if they are working from general guidelines that don't fit your body.
A printable notes page to capture answers and key takeaways during your appointment, so you never leave wondering "what did they say again?"
The Post-Visit Debrief tool with reflection prompts and a Provider Fit Scorecard to help you trust your intuition and decide with confidence and not confusion.
Permission to choose again: because finding the right provider isn't about judging doctors, it's about finding the right fit for YOUR body and YOUR needs.
This is such a valuable resource for women navigating surgical menopause. Having these questions in one place can help women feel more prepared and confident when talking with their doctors.
Rachel

This guide is beautifully organized and easy to follow. It feels approachable and empowering, especially for women who may not know where to start.
Katie

A PERSONAL NOTE
I help women in surgical menopause feel like themselves again — without guessing, pushing, or trying to fix everything on their own.
But it hasn't always been this way…
When I was 27, a diagnosis of ovarian cancer changed everything. What followed was surgery, chemotherapy, and being thrust into surgical menopause overnight — with no roadmap for what came next. I had to figure it out the hard way.
For over 20 years, I've navigated the physical, emotional, and identity shifts that come with surgical menopause. I understand the exhaustion, the disconnect from your body, and the questions that so often go unanswered.
The turning point came when I realized I didn't have to do this alone — and neither do you.
That's why I created this Doctor Interview Guide. It's the first step I wish I'd had: a way to walk into any appointment feeling prepared, confident, and clear on what to ask so you can find a provider who actually gets it.
You deserve a partner in your care. Let's find them together.
See you inside,
Betsy
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